The Distressed Nervous System

Dr Lauren Wilson MD • July 22, 2025

The body keeps the score

5 Signs Your Nervous System Is in Distress

Your nervous system is the control center of your body—constantly regulating how you think, feel, and respond to the world. When it’s functioning well, you feel grounded, focused, and resilient. But when it’s under prolonged stress or strain, it can start sending subtle (or not-so-subtle) distress signals.

In psychiatry, we often see how an overwhelmed nervous system can contribute to mental health challenges such as anxiety, depression, or even physical symptoms like chronic pain. Recognizing the signs of nervous system distress can help you take steps toward healing and balance.

Here are five common signs your nervous system may be in distress:

1. Persistent Anxiety or Overwhelm

When your nervous system is stuck in “fight-or-flight” mode, you may feel on edge or constantly alert, even when there’s no real danger. Symptoms might include:

  • Racing thoughts or difficulty calming your mind
  • Feeling easily startled or overly sensitive to noise
  • Difficulty sleeping due to worry or a “wired” feeling

2. Chronic Fatigue or Brain Fog

Just as a car engine overheats when pushed too hard, your nervous system can become depleted. You might feel exhausted even after a full night’s rest or struggle to think clearly. This often happens when the body is in a prolonged stress response, wearing down your energy reserves.

3. Unexplained Physical Symptoms

A distressed nervous system doesn’t just affect your mood—it impacts your whole body. You might experience:

  • Digestive issues (like nausea or stomach pain)
  • Headaches or muscle tension
  • Increased heart rate or shortness of breath
    These physical signs often go hand-in-hand with stress and anxiety.

4. Emotional Dysregulation

Do you find yourself reacting strongly to minor frustrations or feeling “stuck” in sadness or irritability? Your nervous system plays a critical role in emotional balance. When it’s out of sync, even small stressors can feel overwhelming, and it’s harder to return to a calm, steady state.

5. Difficulty Relaxing or Feeling Safe

If your nervous system can’t shift out of stress mode, you may find it hard to feel truly at ease—even in quiet moments. This could look like constant restlessness, fidgeting, or feeling emotionally disconnected from others.

What You Can Do

The good news is that your nervous system is highly adaptable. Practices like deep breathing, mindfulness, gentle movement, and therapy can help retrain your body and mind to return to a state of calm. Working with a psychiatrist or therapist can provide additional tools—like personalized coping strategies, medication (when appropriate), and lifestyle support—to restore balance.

If you recognize these signs in yourself, you’re not alone. With the right care and support, your nervous system can recover and thrive.

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